SICA

Student Influence & Communication Association · Cupertino High School

Practice the conversationsthat shape everyday life.

Leading group projects. Making friends. Handling disagreements.

Not speeches. Not debate. Just practice.

Have you ever…

You had something worth saying… but stayed quiet.

You thought of the perfect response… after the conversation ended.

You wanted to introduce yourself… but talked yourself out of it.

You knew the answer… but never raised your hand.

Those moments happen to everyone.

They aren’t personality traits.They’re skills.

If you’ve experienced even one of those, you’re exactly who SICA was built for.

What is SICA?

One skill a week. Twenty minutes practising it with one other person.

A meeting is forty minutes at lunch. You learn one idea for ten. You pair up and practise it for twenty. You get one specific piece of feedback. You leave with one thing to try that week. That is the entire club.

So which skills?

It isn’t one skill. It’s dozens of tiny ones that stack.

Each of these is its own week. None of them is public speaking.

At school

  • Leading group projects
  • Speaking up in class
  • Explaining ideas
  • Handling disagreement

With people

  • Making friends
  • Building trust
  • Reading people
  • Asking better questions
  • Listening properly
  • Reading a room

Later in life

  • Interviews
  • Networking
  • Persuasion
  • Body language
  • Negotiation
  • Public presence
  • Giving feedback
  • Remembering names

School expects you to learn these naturally. SICA gives you somewhere to practise them intentionally.

But isn’t that just debate?

The club you’re picturing isn’t this one.

Think about a group project. One person naturally gets everyone talking — they listen, keep things on track, get people to agree, and lead. Someone else in that same group is quiet, maybe even the smartest person there, but never says much.

That gap isn’t talent. It’s a skill nobody ever taught either of them. SICA is about that gap.

Debate teaches arguing.
Toastmasters teaches presenting.
FBLA teaches competitive presentations.
SICA teaches everyday conversations.
Is it for me?

Every grade. Every personality. Every starting point.

Built for students who already want an edge — in leadership, interviews, networking, or just being taken seriously. Whether you’re naturally confident or naturally quiet, the practice works the same way.

9th

Freshmen making friends.

10th

Sophomores finding confidence.

11th

Juniors preparing for interviews.

12th

Seniors getting ready for college and beyond.

So how do you actually teach that?

Every meeting follows the same rhythm.

Here is a real one — Active Listening, start to finish.

01Learn10 min

One practical idea. This week: why most people listen only to respond.

Most people listen to reply, not to understand.
02Practice25 min

You turn to one person, not the room. They talk; you can only ask and summarise.

You
So what actually happened? Wait — say more about that.
Them
03Feedback

Specific, and only ever two parts.

What worked

You asked twice before saying anything about yourself.

One thing to try

Leave a beat of silence after they finish.

04Try againThis week

Have one conversation where you ask five questions before giving an opinion.

You
What made that hard for you?
Them

No lectures. No memorising speeches. No experience required — and you’re never thrown on stage. Everything starts in pairs. Everyone starts somewhere.

What it’s actually like

You’ll probably laugh.

You’ll probably mess up.

You’ll leave knowing two more people than when you walked in.

And over a whole year?

So how do you build all of those?

30 weeks. Six phases. Each one builds on the last.

01

Know yourself

Notice what you do under pressure and build steadier confidence.

Weeks 1—5
02

Understand people

Pick up on what a group needs and ask better questions.

Weeks 6—10
03

Communicate clearly

Turn an idea into words other people can follow.

Weeks 11—15
04

Navigate disagreement

Disagree with respect and work through conflict.

Weeks 16—20
05

Lead conversations

Start a conversation, guide it, and help a group decide.

Weeks 21—25
06

Apply everything together

Use everything you’ve practiced in a final challenge.

Weeks 26—30
Does any of this actually matter?

Employers screen for this before they screen for grades.

Employers consistently rank communication and teamwork among the most important things they look for.

What employers screen for
Problem-solving~90%
Teamwork~80%
GPA as a screen<40%

Nearly 90% of employers screen for problem-solving and nearly 80% for teamwork — while reliance on GPA as a screening tool has fallen below 40% and keeps dropping. Source: NACE Job Outlook 2024–2025.

It holds even where you would least expect it: research on engineering careers found that up to 70% of career advancement traced back to communication, not technical output.

These aren’t just school skills. They’re the ones that actually decide outcomes.

Questions

Before you come by.

Yes — but SICA isn’t only for people who struggle with this. Plenty of members join because they’re already ambitious and want an edge in leadership, interviews, or networking. Shy or confident, the practice works the same way.

No. Most activities begin in pairs or small groups.

No. The goal isn’t winning arguments. It’s becoming better at working with people.

None. Everyone starts somewhere.

Any grade. Every skill level. Beginner to advanced.

Come to a meeting. That’s all.

Who built this?

Not just heard. Listened to.

As Vice President of Codestarters, I watched something strange happen over and over: the students who got picked for leadership roles — and who actually performed once they had them — weren’t always the ones with the best grades. It came down to communication. The ability to give your ideas real weight, to influence a room instead of getting talked over.

That’s why I built SICA: a club that teaches you to be listened to. Not just heard — listened to.

Founder · Cupertino High School
Come visit

Come once. See what a meeting feels like.

Meet people. Try a challenge. Leave with one conversation you’ll handle better than you would have last week.

No preparation. No pressure. Just practice.